Every option has been explored, thought about and double-checked. It seems like the perfect plan, one that surely will be a win-win for everyone involved. How can it not be?
Then the plan is presented; to uproot Mom or Dad from their home, from their everyday living environment. Just like that, the plan is shot down immediately. The circumstances that led to the decision have been tough enough, who would have imagined this response from them? Surely Mom or Dad understand their best interests are being kept in mind.